Posted by estrellita on November 30, 2007, at 15:04:26
In reply to Re: Crush on psychologist in training, posted by star008 on November 27, 2007, at 0:05:00
Thanks for your advice. It definitely got me thinking about my situation more calmly and rationally. It's so easy to get swept up in daydreams and fantasies, and to let them affect reality. And it just feels really creepy to be having those thoughts and feelings when the other person doesn't know about it... Your words definitely helped me stay (mostly!) grounded.
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> This is such a rough one..the crush goes on and on and doesn't go away.. MIne finally got to the point where the thought never enteres my mind but I went through so much bs before I got there. Transference, yeah probably,, maybe not, but it doesn't make any difference.. There is no way any therapist in practice or in training will have anything to do with you... I don't know why the ehll we have to go thourgh this bs, (as if the rest isn't enough).. but it is a part of therapy.. gag... take care est and keep things as distnat as you can with this one.. YOu wil only get hurt.. I know,, I did that too..>>>not too bright, this one>>>me
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