Posted by fiji on June 28, 2007, at 10:48:32
In reply to ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((fiji)))))))))))))))))) » fiji, posted by muffled on June 28, 2007, at 9:47:03
Thank you for your kind words. You have a good heart.
I got used to talking to the little girl when feelings would come up and I would realize they were hers. I would try to soothe her and tell her that she was safe and that I would protect her. Sometimes I'd ask her what she needed and the next thing you know I would be buying M&Ms! Unconsciously of course, but I knew where it was coming from.
If the girl is angry, she's harder to reach, and her needs are different. That's when the old, soft baseball bat comes out and I go whack on a fence!
again, thank you so much,
antigua
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