Posted by Karolina on January 3, 2007, at 23:18:35
In reply to my T does a weird staring thing...sexual trigger?, posted by Karolina on January 3, 2007, at 16:22:11
Thanks muffled and Poet.
It definitely makes me uncomfortable and nervous. LOL Poet, I got a bad mental picture of my T trying on my gold 5 inch heels...I really hope he doesn't have a shoe fetish!!
I agree that bringing it up next time it begins to happen is a really good idea because it does distract me. If it's not a footfetish thing then the other thing I wondered about is if he is like fantasizing about me on stage in the shoes or something but I don't know. He always compliments me on my appearance but what's gotten bad is when he doesn't then I start to feel completely ugly and rejected in front of him.
I don't mean for all that to sound conceited...obviously I have some terrible self-image issues and I hate that I worry so much about how he regards me. Anybody have any tips on how to be more confident around Ts or less nervous?? I know that sounds like a stupid question but I feel so overwhelmed with where our therapy is going right now, it feels like so many personal feelings mixed in with therapeutic ones.
He goes very back and forth between things; he knows I'm attracted to him, he says he's flattered that I am but then the other day when we were on the subject of it, he said he feels neutral about it. He'll say he thinks of me as a child one week, and a young adult the next. I feel so overwhelmed and confused by him!
Thanks again for your responses muffled and Poet
-Karolina-
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