Posted by Poet on January 3, 2007, at 18:12:31
In reply to my T does a weird staring thing...sexual trigger?, posted by Karolina on January 3, 2007, at 16:22:11
Hi Karolina,
I would be very uncomfortable if I were in your situation. I'd think, too, that my T has a shoe fetish.
Maybe after you snap him out of his staring, you could say something like *I noticed you're staring at my shoesn again, would you like to try them on?* Embarassing him might get him to stop, then again what if he did want to try them on?
Could you experiment by wearing tennis shoes and see if he still stares at your feet? I realize this means he might stare at your boobs, but if you wear a heavy sweater or jacket there's nothing there to see. I think it would be interesting to see where he looks, if his two favorite staring points are different.
It would really bug me if someone did that to me, especially in therapy, I hope you can get him to realize it annoys you and he'll stop.
Poet
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