Posted by Tamar on January 1, 2007, at 17:30:22
In reply to Re: why can't I leave therapy? » Tamar, posted by orchid on December 31, 2006, at 14:12:39
Hi Orchid,
It's nice to see you!
> IMHO, it is best to just avoid all sorts of complicated relationships. Life has its own set of problems to add one more unwanted thing to its list.
Yeah, I'd like to avoid it. I'd like to just walk away. Sometimes I think that would be the best thing, and sometimes I think I'd be trying to run away from my problems if I leave therapy.
> For whatever reason, your therapist is not doing what he should be doing for you. And I know you are realizing it, but still are finding it difficult to leave him.
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> Maybe one thing you can do is to try to visualize yourself in a more positive relationship. Visualizing is very powerful when just knowing the right thing is not working out - from what I have heard. Maybe you can try that.I will try it. I think it will take some practice! I've heard that athletes use visualization very effectively. I hope it'll work!
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