Posted by B2chica on December 21, 2006, at 11:16:08
In reply to Re: OB/GYN disclosure of SA **trigger**, posted by antigua on December 16, 2006, at 12:37:02
THANK YOU for commenting antigua (good to see you again).
and what you said really resonates with me. i know once i would tell my DH that he would not forgive and would not be able to have a relationship of any kind with my brother and it would effect his relationship with my parents as well. and i think it would eat at him...it would become his troubles as well.
my first T told me that in fact most people do not ever confront their abusers and that confrontation is not always the best answer. he made me feel comfortable in my decision.
i think my new T respects it, but she may differ in opinion...we haven't really discussed it too much.
but i guess i have to remember that my OB's comments are not coming from a professional psych background. it is just personal opinion. plus she really doens't know all the facts so her opinion may change if she knew it all. and she's not a T so i need to just accept that it is her caring opinion based only on what she now knows.thank you very much for the encouragement on our upcoming little one.
i'll be away from internet for a few weeks (holiday vacation time), i hope everyone has non-eventful hopefully enjoyed holidays.
b2c.
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