Posted by antigua on December 16, 2006, at 12:37:02
In reply to OB/GYN disclosure of SA **trigger**, posted by B2chica on December 13, 2006, at 10:41:40
I'm not sure I agree with your T. It is your choice to tell and when. My husband knows about my sa and he HATES any mention of my father at all (my father is dead). I can't even talk about him in a nice way because it just makes my DH mad. I know it is his own issue, but he had to know why I behave the way I do at times. It has been a struggle at times, but there is no possible way that my DH can ever understand the love/hate I feel for my father.
I wish you the best of luck in having your baby. I know now that the first time around I wasn't even aware of the sa, and the doctor couldn't understand why I couldn't stand to be touched. I never could relax and ended up having a C section. In retrospect, it's so easy to see why. I think you've done the right thing and your doctor should respect your wishes.
Best of luck. Babies are so wonderful!
antigua
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