Posted by Declan on December 7, 2006, at 1:35:39
In reply to anyone still in love with their T..? Or not..?, posted by Scentedgarden on December 6, 2006, at 14:41:36
If I was you (don't take my advice) I would not be trying to work through the transferance so much as to wallow in it, if only because it is so interesting and the working through it is not. But perhaps it's not so easy. You want your T to love you, you love your T, but doubts remain.
I dunno about the loving back. My understanding was that ethics did not permit a dropping of the role (if role it is).
I spent 15 years with my T, 5 days a week, so there was a lot of role and not much else.
But I don't mean to imply that it was an act or anything like that. I believed, and still do, that she loved me. But that was that.
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