Posted by wishingstar on December 4, 2006, at 9:52:08
In reply to Does your T ask? ***SI trigger***, posted by bottomfeeder on December 3, 2006, at 23:47:01
I have a history of SI. I havent done it in awhile, but the urges are still there. My new T knows all about that, and asks sometimes how that's going. Usually if I say I havent, she says good - a "good! I'm proud of you!" sort of good. It feels really nice. She hasnt specifically asked me to tell her if I do, but I think shed want to know. I'm not sure if I'd be able to do it or not though, at least without her asking. My old T never asked, but if she found out I had, she always asked to see. I really hated that.
I think this question might be a good thing to ask your T. I might just say something like, "do you wnat me to tell you when i'm SIing, or is that too much detail?" I think you'll be able to see how she feels from her reaction. And really if she isnt able to deal with your SI, you need someone who can.
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