Posted by Lindenblüte on November 11, 2006, at 14:57:50
In reply to Re: Well, I'm not rejecting you Kerria, » kerria, posted by Lindenblüte on November 11, 2006, at 0:06:32
Hi Kerria,
don't take all the advice that your friends give you. Sometimes people give bad advice. I have a reputation among my college friends for giving terrible advice. The hilarious thing is that they still come to me for advice. Why? Because my advice is SO bad, that by the time they finish telling my why my advice is bad, they have actually figured out a lot of the problem in the first place.Do you have anyone right now who is keeping you safe? Is your husband someone who you can get comfort from?
I'm so sorry everything is messed up right now. I hope you can weather the storm and stay connected to the things that matter most to you. It's hard to make connections to online folks- you have to trust so much and the more you trust, the more vulnerable you may feel. I hope you will start feeling stronger soon.
You've been through the hardest part, Kerria. These words are things that hurt, but they cannot abuse you. You've survived the worst- and done the best you could. I hope you can move away from the hurting places and move towards a place where you feel comforted and soothed.
-Li
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