Posted by muffled on August 7, 2006, at 21:32:03
In reply to why?? **sexual trigger**, posted by Karolina on August 6, 2006, at 23:23:25
Sorry you had to get so overexposed.
Its was wonderful to hear how you seem to have an understanding of what appropriate and not despite your unusual upbringing. It must have been terribly confusing.
Lots of guys wack off to porn. Or in the shower. Or in hotel rooms. Or in bed. Etc. And it don't matter if their married or not. Sometimes the man just needs to get off more often and masterbation is what they can do. Same goes for women as well. I don't think its wrong to masterbate. But I must admit I do not agree with porn. Too many damaged lives. Also it should be done privately. Your Dad may not have known that you were there but he should still do it in a private place.
I understand your confusion. I am confused about sex too. And i am a married woman!
I find the intimacy of it terrifying.
It sounds like you have been working on things so thats nice to hear.
Its hard bout your T too. I think lots of people get attracted to their T cuz of the intimacy thing, and sex is so screwed up in our society, that its really not surprizing.
Another poster was able to talk to her T bout her attraction and it helped her alot. Dunno if you read that thread.
I'm rambling,
Sorry,
Take care,
Muffled
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