Posted by Dinah on July 25, 2006, at 13:36:59
In reply to HELP WITH ABANDONMENT, posted by iarosepetal on July 24, 2006, at 21:28:34
It's a very sad but true fact of therapy that we often have to pay for a therapist's errors of judgement. In fact, we're usually the ones to pay in one way or another.
He was trying a form of therapy that he hadn't thought through clearly, and when he decided to do therapy differently, he changed the rules on you. And then was overwhelmed by your distress at that.
I wish we could make them pay for the therapy to help us to recover from their mistakes. Do you think it's possible for you to meet with him that one last time with your current therapist in the room?
I really am sorry.
poster:Dinah
thread:670174
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