Posted by Dinah on June 30, 2006, at 16:15:32
In reply to This isn't fun any more, posted by Tamar on June 30, 2006, at 13:49:28
I had that same problem with my therapist. Still do I guess.
I understand the impulse too. Keep trying to reason with yourself. Acting out has never has gotten me what I want. :( For me carrying through the fantasy to the likely actual outcome decreases my desire to misbehave.
(((((Tamar)))))
It sounds like you've been pretty clear about what it is you're looking for from him? Do you think he's able to give it? If not, do you think you can adjust your expectations of him? Lowered expectations have always been my choice of action. I'm too dependent to keep my expectations and lose my therapist.
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