Posted by orchid on May 12, 2006, at 14:06:03
In reply to Feeling lower than dirt, posted by LadyBug on May 12, 2006, at 8:00:35
I am very sorry you are going through this much pain. I know how bad it is to have a bad marital state.
Is there any option of making your marriage work again? Was it good before the affair? If it was good, then maybe you two can prevail through the rough weather.
It is extremely hard to leave a marriage - even if that of an year, not to say after 22 years. It truly would be devastating.
I hope you are safe during this weekend, and that your friends give you a break from this pain.
Also when I was in a bad marital state, some different focus helped me - like music or something else entertaining. It might lessen the pain for the time being while you work out on a long term solution.
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