Posted by Tamar on February 17, 2006, at 5:36:13
In reply to 10 reasons u dont want to sleep with u shrink, posted by zebracrossing on February 17, 2006, at 2:05:36
I don’t have 10, but here are my thoughts…I could sleep with my shrink and he might be good… he might be great. It might be the best sex I’ve ever had. And if I had the most amazing sex of my life with him, I would want to keep him forever. I would fall in love with him and wish to be his partner. But if he had sex with me it wouldn’t be a sign of his love for me and he wouldn’t leave his partner for me. I would be desperately hurt.
I could sleep with my shrink and he might be terrible. We might not connect sexually at all. I remember once before (many years ago) I had a massive crush on an authority figure. Eventually we had a relationship but the sex was nothing like my fantasies. If that happened with my shrink I’d be horribly disappointed.
I could sleep with my shrink and he might be OK. Not fantastic, but not awful. I think I’d like that. But we wouldn’t be able to do therapy any more, and he really is a good therapist…
Sorry, perhaps that was too serious... I'm still not quite myself...
poster:Tamar
thread:610522
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