Posted by Annierose on November 14, 2005, at 20:54:36
In reply to Re: I brought it up... » Annierose, posted by Augustina on November 14, 2005, at 20:00:36
Yes, I think I do feel that I leave feeling good about sharing my feelings. However, right now I'm in the midst of self-wallowing, so it's a little hard to be objective : -) My T is psychodynamic in orientation, so the relationship between client and therapist is one of the main focuses of the therapy. Today she tried very hard to let me know that I mattered to her; I guess it's hard for the hurt little girl inside my head to believe it.
So, in answer to your question, I think your T would welcome your feelings. It will be interesting to explore and it's definitely worth it.
Oh --- you asked how she responds to my comments. Hmmmm, sometimes she just smiles and reassures me, "It's hard letting me know how important I am to you right now." She never makes me feel bad or ickky.
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