Posted by Susan47 on October 24, 2005, at 20:10:52
In reply to Re:To Susan unrequited/sort of) Ally is right!! :), posted by allisonross on October 24, 2005, at 13:46:47
Hi Ally,
You said "also......told him that if he had been my auto mechanic, and I had gotten to know him, I would have been attracted to, AND fallen in love with him..."
and I just had to pick that out, because I've never known any auto mechanic, and this is not a slur of any sort on any social/economic/cultural/work group .. but honestly I haven't known very many deeply philosophizing/thinking well-balanced and incredibly self-confident and intelligent auto mechanics, salesmen, lawyers, doctors, policemen (++++ on that one) ... there's something about this particular man which is deeply interesting.
And I wonder,
Is it because he's interested in ME?
Is that what truly makes him interesting?
Or is he as lovely, softly kind, intelligent, emotional (YES!) and vulnerable (Double YES! ... my shopping list, my emotional man shopping list, is coming to the fore.
Do you know I had over 80 qualities I was looking for in a man?
And do you know I based every one of those positive qualities on the one man my imagination created, developed, from my ex-T?
Sick .. or smart?
One may never know.
poster:Susan47
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