Posted by orchid on October 20, 2005, at 17:29:41
In reply to Re: Talking about transference to your husband/SO? » orchid, posted by Tamar on October 19, 2005, at 19:22:10
That is true. To fully explain things to him and make him understand, I will have to bring out the problems I had with my father. And it might lead to a permanent rift between them.
Anyway, I never wanted to have any problems in my marriage. I always dreamt of having a smooth marriage and being good to each other and kind of loyal etc. It is sad to realize that none of it worked out that way.
But maybe that is what reality is.
Thanks for your views Tamar.
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