Posted by Dinah on October 20, 2005, at 15:49:36
In reply to Talking about transference to your husband/SO?, posted by orchid on October 19, 2005, at 16:36:06
P.S.
I'm also not a huge fan of total honesty in any relationship. If something only has the potential to hurt the other party, and it's in the past and not a factor in the relationship today, I kind of think that it's better for the person bearing the secret to continue bearing it alone.
But I'm no relationship specialist, obviously.
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