Posted by muffled on October 13, 2005, at 11:28:31
In reply to Re: For muffled. (and Blossom) » muffled, posted by fairywings on October 13, 2005, at 0:31:55
> Hi muffled,
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> I think you're basing what you said on everything we know to be what's supposed to be true, from the experience of ppl on the board, from reading "In Session; ", and from every lick of information out there on the web on transference and countertransference. It's okay to state your opinion, when it's strong or not, you have good stuff to say, please don't quit.
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> ((((hugs))))
> fw
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> Blossom,
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> Maybe for your ex T developed some countertransference, and maybe because you're a student in the psych dept. he feels like a mentor somewhat, maybe more, it's been known to happen. Who knows, I think Tamar is right, facing it head on is probably the best way to go, but maybe wait till you're done with your studies, so it doesn't devastate you if something goes wrong, or if his wife gets wind of it?
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> Thanks FW. I sometimes get alittle uppity. I don't know much. But this board is sure cool. And the people beautiful.
Muffled.
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