Posted by messadivoce on September 30, 2005, at 19:09:56
In reply to Re: My fiance, therapy and more » messadivoce, posted by Shortelise on September 30, 2005, at 1:07:43
ShortE, your point is well taken.
I think this will be a subject of discussion in the near future. I want to take care of myself and be well for him and our relationship, as well as for myself.
We are independent enough from each other that were I to go back, he wouldn't "forbid" me to do that (a sure way to make me do something is to tell me not to do it, in most cases). But he would be unhappy. I don't want him to be unhappy. But I don't want to be unhappy either.
Right now I don't know what I am. Happy that I'm getting married. Sad about losing two wonderful Ts. Gah, I can't think anymore.
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