Posted by Joslynn on September 22, 2005, at 14:21:43
In reply to Talked to my T today about this, posted by happyflower on September 22, 2005, at 12:49:31
You know, your cousin is probably in such a state of shock, she wouldn't notice in detail who shows up and who doesn't. The safety of you and your family comes first I think. You can always send a nice card with a handwritten note. Her family is gone now, but you and your family are still alive, and protecting them is more important in this case. Your mental health is worth protecting as well. I would avoid it altogether. Send a card and say a prayer instead. Just my .02.
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