Posted by happyflower on September 21, 2005, at 21:39:28
I just found out that my cousin's husband and son(10) just died in a car accident this morning.
I haven't been close to my cousin as adults, but as kids we played together at her house during family get togethers. I would like to attend the funeral, but I am afraid my mom will show up, and I am scared of her. My T told me I should stay away from her because she is a threat to me and my family's safety. Well in times like this I feel really bad, because I would like to be there, but yet, I don't need any problems.
I left a message for my T to call me tommorrow so I can talk about it or for an appointment. I am wondering what his advice will be. I guess I could send a card to my cousin and one to my aunt and uncle (my dad's side of the family) But it makes me upset, that I have to keep away from the family because of my mom. What would you all do in this situation. I appreciate any replies. Thanks.
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