Posted by alexandra_k on September 7, 2005, at 3:10:16
In reply to Re: i don't want to go to therapy today- plse help, posted by kerria on September 6, 2005, at 23:17:47
> Has anyone ever been this disconnected with their parts and ever gotten better?
i reckon
> i feel so frustrated and hopeless about ever getting better.
yeah. i'm hearing that.
> i need therapy- please remind me that it's the only way i can tell what parts are thinking.
> the one that is helped by therapy because i can see what parts feel and think when T talks to them.the trouble is... and i have said this before... if your parts talk to your therapist and then your therapist passes what they say on to you then there is absolutely no incentive whatsoever for them to begin to talk to you. your therapist has become the way station. the point of connection between you all.
and it is not supposed to be like that. it is not.
i have said this before... but i think you need to find yourself a new therapist.
i know you say you can't because they all know your therapist...
but unless you live in a very small town i think that it is unlikely to be true.
i know you say you can't because all the specialists know each other...
but i say f*ck the specialists.
i know you say you can't because you need your t to talk to your parts...
but that seems to be the very thing that is preventing your being able to talk to your parts.
i know it is really hard seeing a new t.
but i would say that part of you knows that things aren't right there... things aren't right there... you have been going for how long? and you have said that in many many respects you have gotten much worse in therapy rather than better.
i really think... it is time to find somebody else and move on.
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