Posted by happyflower on May 24, 2005, at 18:59:28
In reply to Re: my fairytale is over! » happyflower, posted by Daisym on May 24, 2005, at 18:01:44
> This is a sincere question...
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> How did you manage to just switch off your feelings...make them be something else?I really don't know how I swiched off my feelings, maybe I will feel different tommorrow! lol But I guess just hearing him talk about his wife and daughter just made me realize he really isn't available. I think he is a great guy, and I feel I know about as much as a women knows a guys after a few dates. I would love to pursue a relationship if he wasn't married and I wasn't either. Maybe after I told him I liked him and was feeling too close to him and wanted to back away because I was scared, he read between the lines. Letting me know again he was married, was letting me down nicely. Maybe he sensed our attraction already and it is his way of telling me that it couldn't be possible. And he knows I have good values and would never want to break up any marriage. I really don't know, maybe after I admitted to him I was getting too close, maybe admitting it, made it less intense. All I know is I feel so much better getting it out in the open. Any ideas?
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