Posted by happyflower on May 24, 2005, at 14:27:37
Yup, today, I realize I can't marry my T! Yes, I am happily married, and yes he is also married. But the fact he doesn't wear a ring, made me fantizize about it. But he mentioned his wife and kid today, so I know my fantazy is over. I am not sad, just relieved. Now I need to work more on my real relationship with my husband. Now maybe therapy will work since I am no longer in love with my T. But I trust him, which means a lot. I have come a long way. I believe he will help me make my life better with real people in it, not people I pay to listen to me. That would probably be the best compliment to give him, make myself whole. I will be sad someday to leave him, because he has made my life so much better. But I can accept it. I will be okay, maybe I will cry, but I will be fine.
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