Posted by happyflower on May 11, 2005, at 14:52:11
In reply to Why not advice to forgive our parents? **trigger**, posted by pinkeye on May 11, 2005, at 14:02:43
Well I divorsed my mother because she is still abusive and was starting to get that way with my kids. The last straw was when she put a gun to my brothers head and told him to get out of her house 2 days after my dad from cancer 3 days after X-Mas. All the pain she has put me through is enough for me to say I don't need more, and I don't want my kids to go through that. Just because you have kids doesn't mean you are fit to be a parent. I wish I was adopted, maybe I would have had a better child's life. I wish I was brave enough to tell of her abuse when I was a child, then maybe she would be in prison where she belongs. She has threatend to abduct my kids because I spoil them by not spanking them. She has sent unmarked packages addressed to my kids. One package contained coupons for a local mall for free stuff. Well I found out she forged my name and signed my kids up for this kids club. Well I found out that she worked as security at the mall. She has threatened to use authority against me when I was a teenagager. If I didn't question this package that my kids got, I would have never of known about her working at the mall. She could of said I was shoplifting, and while I was with the police defending myself, she could have abducted my kids. She is a very sick evil woman and I can never trust her ever. So that is my divorse story, sorry to be so blunt, but sometimes ending the relationship is nessary. I don't feel bad about it at all. I am doing what is best for me and my family.
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