Posted by pinkeye on May 6, 2005, at 14:07:33
In reply to Re: Pinkeye? » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on May 5, 2005, at 20:10:05
Dinah,
I think I got carried away telling my own story and hijacking this thread. Sorry about that.I think you should atleast start doing what I have been doing.. write here on this board.. what went on between you and your father.. write as much as possible, and I think that might be a start.
You are right about abuse. I don't think me or you can ever think of our dads as having abused us.. whether emotionally or sexually. But maybe you can just realize that what he did was a horrible mistake. Maybe that will help, instead of trying to make him an abuser and see yourself as a victim. Just maybe you can atleast acknowledge that he did a huge mistake with you. Does that sound possible? Or you don't even think he made a mistake?
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