Posted by antigua on April 20, 2005, at 11:46:46
In reply to Re: ((((ShortE))))) » pinkeye, posted by Shortelise on April 19, 2005, at 23:20:34
Not be negative, but my therapist told me today that I would never get what I wanted (that thing, comfort, whatever) then. One, the person I want it from will never give it to me and two, I can never have what I didn't have as a child and for it to mean the same thing. She was very matter of fact about it, not mean at all.
She says when I work through the original trauma, I won't need it anymore, whatever it is.
do I believe her? Not really, but I guess that's why I keep getting myself into trouble wanting something (or someone) that I just can't have.
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