Posted by katherpoo1 on April 14, 2005, at 16:27:06
In reply to Band-aide anyone for a bruised ego?, posted by annierose on April 14, 2005, at 15:10:45
Yow-zah! I would be hurt if my T said that too! Sounds like plain old judgement to me. Bah! :(
GOOD FOR YOU for getting to the courage to call and speak your mind. She needed immediate feedback on how she made you feel. No sense in letting that fester inside you all the way into next week. No matter what she said in response, you stood up for yourself and in any "relationship" that's important. You did NOT run from it. *pat on back*
Now, I wish I knew you better (newbie... trying to find "my place here, with limited success :( ) ...what can you do about finding that band-aid?
A list of self-validations? You know, things you love and value about yourself? Sounds cheesy maybe but I can tell in your post that you know you're a good person... expand on that, perhaps?
Good luck -
kat
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