Posted by shrinking violet on April 3, 2005, at 17:05:49
In reply to Update for all..., posted by tryingtobewise on April 3, 2005, at 16:35:40
Wow, what a difficult situation.....
As a start, could you maybe schedule your appts with the New T on a day that you aren't working at the office for your former T? That way, at least the two "worlds," if you will, won't collide too much, and you'll be able to be the worker on worker days, and the client on client days.
Since your New T is aware of the situation, perhaps you can talk to her about your concerns? Maybe work out where her office might be in relation to where you are, whether you will be using the same elevator or staircases, etc. And what either of you should do if you do see each other (nod, smile, say hi, ignore, etc). Since you seem to like your job, for the most part (at least enough to stay there for now) and you seem to like your new T, I wouldn't make any sudden changes to either of those things just because of this situation. Try it out for a while, see how it goes. It might not be as bad as you think; often the anticipation of something is worse than the actual event.
Good luck.
SV
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