Posted by pinkeye on March 24, 2005, at 12:44:23
In reply to Re: Wish I could write, posted by Susan47 on March 24, 2005, at 6:46:35
The way you are visualizing yourself is very wrong. You are rejecting yourself so much and thinking of yourself as unacceptable and unlovable. And you try to behave in the same way to prove to yourself that you are right.
Apparently, people will give anything to know that they are right. What if you are wrong? Can you accept yourself to be wrong about something? What if you had always been wrong about what you think you are? What if you are a lovely person as your thearpist has said and that you are just not allowing yourself to be?
I would really suggest reading some good novels, and good movies where women are portrayed as good and strong and healthy and deserving of love. I like Daniel Steel's novels .. the way she portrays women is excellent. Strong and healthy and feminine and loving. I try to keep that as a role model for myself many times. Even the movie Sound of Music is one of the excellent movies - her character in that movie is absolutely fabulous. Try to pick up some role model for yourself... We all need that very badly.
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