Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 21, 2005, at 19:09:38
In reply to Re: Relationships, posted by gardenergirl on January 21, 2005, at 18:50:51
Thank you GG and that was a very thoughful post too..I DO understand why this issue is hot My T does not belong to Babble and I thought it out and didn't even ask him what his perscpective is because I know he will say pretty much why are they not working on their issues maybe they should take their concerns on this to their T's (that is just my guess). I have posts above on how I do not tell people in private emails to cross as I am/have whatever but man I am bruised and no I didn't sign up for this I have been very civil on what has triggered me and would never point out another poster like that. I KNOW the poster regrets it she is a sweetie but others have not let it be. To that end I am gonna post my final post on this as I do not feel this is helpful to anyone..we just go in circles.
LOL what is a BOBO doll?? And thank you on the engagement.....I appreciate it :)
> Hi Fallen,
> I know you know what my stance on this issue is, so I won't post it again. I'm sorry you feel like a punching bag. I can see how "hot" this issue is, and since you are the current Babble "incarnation" of this issue, you seem to be bearing the burden of all of our concerns. I only want to say that I feel bad that you are the one here to bear this burden, when it really is the actions of your ex-T/current fiance that are what many of us seem to be reacting to. I'm certainly not saying that I think he should come to Babble and "tag in", and I'm also not blaming him for you feeling hurt here. But unfortunately, since he is not here (as far as I know) you're like the stand-in "Bobo doll" for those of us who get upset about ethical violations.
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> I'm guessing you didn't sign up for this duty? :(
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> Best wishes on your engagement. That is an exciting time in a gal's life.
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> gg
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