Posted by gardenergirl on January 21, 2005, at 18:50:51
In reply to Re: Relationships » alexandra_k, posted by Fallen4MyT on January 21, 2005, at 17:55:53
Hi Fallen,
I know you know what my stance on this issue is, so I won't post it again. I'm sorry you feel like a punching bag. I can see how "hot" this issue is, and since you are the current Babble "incarnation" of this issue, you seem to be bearing the burden of all of our concerns. I only want to say that I feel bad that you are the one here to bear this burden, when it really is the actions of your ex-T/current fiance that are what many of us seem to be reacting to. I'm certainly not saying that I think he should come to Babble and "tag in", and I'm also not blaming him for you feeling hurt here. But unfortunately, since he is not here (as far as I know) you're like the stand-in "Bobo doll" for those of us who get upset about ethical violations.I'm guessing you didn't sign up for this duty? :(
Best wishes on your engagement. That is an exciting time in a gal's life.
gg
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