Posted by notaliseliz on December 11, 2004, at 2:49:48
In reply to Re: Child abuse=abuser? PLEASE RESPOND, posted by anastasia56 on December 10, 2004, at 23:33:08
Thank you everyone for what you have to say.
I'm printing your responsed so I can read them often, as they will help me understand that I am not alone in the world.
I have been thinking about seeing a hypnotist to remember that day I disappeared, but I don't know if it is worth it in the sense that would it cause more problems? Or would I be able to have something concrete to deal with?
I've asked my family for their takes on it and it goes like this:
sister, 10 years older--had no idea it happened
sister, 9 years older--thinks I set a series of arson fires in the neighborhood (weird!)
brother, 1 year older--remembers i was gone, but doesn't know why
mom---said she asked me at the time and i wouldn't answer so she never asked again
dad---same as momi read something about going to meet your inner child as the adult you are now and being a friend to that child you were, taking the child by the hand. it's a hard concept but i think i really need to do it.
obviously i needed someone to let me know i was worth something.those of you who said i was just a child, well, true, but i'd think this would be more common with younger children who are exploring , i.e. playing doctor, and not someone in their preteens. i don't know what my motives were, other than maybe searching for control?
anyway, thank you again so much. i hope to find some guidance here.
poster:notaliseliz
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