Posted by tabitha on October 5, 2004, at 0:53:52
In reply to Re: In agony over termination, posted by mandinka on October 5, 2004, at 0:18:50
Well that's really puzzling. I wonder what motivation he had for not telling you the truth. Did you already try asking T2 if she could get T1 to tell her what really happened? Then maybe T2 could tell you something. Or maybe she could answer the question you posted here about what the reasons might be for T1 keeping you in the dark.
I know that feeling of thinking you'll go nuts if you don't get a reason why someone left. It's a hard fact of life that sometimes you have to get closure on your own, without input from the other party. It does sound like T2 is loyal and is protecting your interests. She sounds like a good resource for helping you through your grief.
You might want to be cautious about continuing to "bug" T1. If he's made it clear he doesn't want contact with you, and you keep contacting him, well I'm worried his responses could get even more hurtful for you. If you want the records, maybe have T2 ask T1 for them instead of contacting him yourself.
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