Posted by Pfinstegg on September 26, 2004, at 14:45:21
In reply to Completely lost faith, posted by Dinah on September 25, 2004, at 23:04:29
But Dinah, he yelled at you shortly before he left! And you didn't have a chance to ensure your bond before his vacation, as you normally try hard to do. If I were going to guess, I'd say you got mad, and then quickly shut down and became sort of flat and uncaring, as if you are saying, "who needs HIM?". It sounds as though you're going to 'pay him back" by cancelling on Wednesday. Why not go on Wednesday, and just deal with whatever comes up- like everyone, you can change from detachment to secure, warm attachment very quickly, if you have a chance to deal with the underlying issues. This is such an unusually difficult time for you because of your parents' increasing fragility- hang on to all the good things! (even when they don't seem so good)
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