Posted by lookdownfish on January 21, 2004, at 10:30:04
In reply to Re: marital troubles and therapy angst » lookdownfish, posted by Poet on January 21, 2004, at 9:57:41
> I don't know what your marriage problems are, but maybe your husband feels threatened by change, too?
Poet, thanks for repsonding. I think that's the key point, he does feel threatened. I think he wants to preserve things just as they are, and doesn't want to rock the boat. He has mild OCD, which he has mostly under control, so he is afraid of addressing it. In fact he won't even talk about it, as he says that makes it worse. He also says that he doesn't have time for therapy and we can sort it out ourselves instead of wasting money, along with numerous other excuses.
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