Posted by TexasChic on November 24, 2003, at 14:16:01
In reply to Re: What was your childhood like? » TexasChic, posted by Penny on November 24, 2003, at 13:27:45
I have actually gotten as far as having sex twice (several years apart). Each time I forced myself to do it. I was like a robot and didn't enjoy it at all. I wasn't very close to either guy I was with. It was like I was thinking, "I'm going to force myself to get over this no matter what!" But I can tell you that doesn't work very well either. My best solution for myself is to just try to take one thing at a time and work up the nerve just to date. My best friend just got divorced and she has men lining up waiting to take her out. I'm like, that should be me too! I'm single, attractive, intelligent, fun; I should be enjoying myself. And I know it's up to me, I have to be willing to put myself out there. I guess its a matter of getting over the 'what ifs'.
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