Posted by TexasChic on November 24, 2003, at 12:42:22
In reply to Re: What was your childhood like?, posted by Penny on November 24, 2003, at 12:26:53
I'm the same way with men! I'm only comfortable if they're 'safe', ie: married, gay, ect. I guess I have intimacy problems too. I know my dad molested two of my cousins, but I have no memory of him ever doing anything to me. But like you, I behave as if something like this has happened to me. People always want to know why I don't date. I just blame it on my anxiety, but really I think I'm terrified of it leading to a relationship. But yet I dream of having one and am jealous of my friends. Just another thing to work out in therapy I guess. But as long as I'm still moving forward, that's okay. Its all about self improvement and figuring out how to be happy, right?
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