Posted by pinkeye on July 14, 2003, at 20:57:52
In reply to Boy, can I relate » pinkeye, posted by Miller on July 14, 2003, at 20:37:03
I think he knows it too, since I have told him many times how much I am attached to him.
I just haven't told that I have a romantic crush on him.
The main fear I have is that I want to believe that he has the same romantic feelings towards me too. I don't want to say it and then listen to him saying that it is normal for patients to feel this way but he doesn't have any feelings towards me. That will be so much disappointing.
I want to atleast keep my hope that he feels the same way towards me :-)
And besides both of us are married anyways, so there is no point in saying it knowing myself that there is nothing beyond a therapist patient relationship that is possible and it is very unethical of me to feel this way too.
thanks for your support though. It really helps to vent your feelings to someone.
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