Posted by Pfinstegg on May 19, 2003, at 11:51:56
In reply to Re: What Do You Do With Tranference Crunches? » Pfinstegg, posted by Dinah on May 17, 2003, at 13:15:14
I think I know what you mean, at least generally. I have had the fear that my anger and rage were "killing him off", and have experienced feelings of aloneness and detachment after an angry outburst, as if, indeed I had done away with him. I will say that this therapist continues to remind me that the anger means that I am "engaging fully" in the therapy, and views my outbursts as a vital part of of the process. It's by far the hardest, though, and I do need to reconnect the more positive and loving parts of me to him before plunging back into such primitive rage. I am in awe of how these therapists withstand it.
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