Posted by violette on July 4, 2010, at 12:51:44 [reposted on July 4, 2010, at 14:05:14 | original URL]
In reply to Re: please be civil » violette, posted by Dr. Bob on July 4, 2010, at 12:14:14
This is a good example of an unsafe environment-someone's repeated passive agressive behavior has led others to feel hurt as shown in Verloren's post below....there are similar posts from others about feeling hurt by some of EmilyPs posts-but since no one ever came to sanction her, the person who pointed out the harmfulness (me) gets sanctioned, while the one upsetting others does not and is permitted to continue posting in a manner which is hurtful to others as evidenced by the responses. And some wonder why people leave this forum....
Maybe data mining techniques could be used to scan for the word "poison" in case someone refers to a drug that way. This is as crazy as my family, so i see that it is useless for me to continue this discussion.
"I don't like feeling belittled on a site where I mistakenly thought the community would offer insight and support...It does sound like you are criticizing me especially when you start a post defending yourself from being critical. Therefore I'll choose not to subject myself to any more criticism from you by reading any more of your messages to me." - Verloren
poster:violette
thread:953266
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