Posted by 10derHeart on April 15, 2009, at 18:42:43
In reply to Re: *Trigger* Jade's Final Post, posted by JadeKelly on April 13, 2009, at 21:38:33
>I sent some form of this to Administration addressing all members. Not one ever mentioned it to me privately or publicly.
Jade,
I can't speak for Racer or Dinah, but I'll speak for me. I would never mention anything a poster chose to tell me privately, in public. As for privately, I'm sorry if my not responding to your Babblemail gave a negative impression. It wasn't my intention. Perhaps I should have, to say I was sorry you had to go through such pain in life. I think sometimes I think people just know I'm sorry, but that doesn't mean I shouldn't go ahead and actually say it. That maybe was a poor choice. I know I really want people to respond to me when I reveal personal things. I will say, in explanation, that there are several reasons I often won't respond to posters' emails. Some of these are: I forget, I can't find the time and then I end up being embarrassed so *much* time has passed, I don't understand the message, or, I flat out don't know what to say. Also, being a deputy, my actions and words seem to carry a different sort of weight, so sometimes - wrong or right - I choose not to respond at all, feeling it will actually be more helpful that way.
>They don't talk to me.
Again, just replying for me, I don't really talk to anyone off the boards. It certainly hasn't got a thing to do with *you.* Except to answer a Notification, or other question put to me in my deputy role. Or perhaps to briefly respond if someone Babblemails me in my non-deputy role, which is fairly rare. It's partly a case of time-management of IRL stuff (I spend way, way too much time online avoiding the anxiety of RL responsibilities) and also something I've found necessary to function as a deputy and even as a regular poster, in some cases. Keeping everything as transparent as possible seems best.>10der has made it quite clear that she doesn't like me(I'll be generous).
I am bewildered. It isn't true that I don't like you. I don't know you.
poster:10derHeart
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