Posted by zazenducke on February 2, 2008, at 20:11:23
In reply to Re: I feel ******** but am afraid to say so, posted by Daisym on February 2, 2008, at 19:58:29
> If I understand the civility guidelines, our "intent" matters less than how we might make someone feel, based on our word choices.
How did you imagine I might feel when I read your post above?
>Which is kind of why I was asking about using the "one" vs. "you" - I also did not intend to be answering directly to you and your experience, but rather in more global way to many of the posters who have questioned a variety of relationship aspects that can occur during therapy. However, reading it again, I can see how I was not clear because I did, indeed, say "you."
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> I don't think you were pbc'd -- at least not on that thread, but maybe I missed it. I think I'll just choose to steer clear of these kinds of threads in the future.I think Bob prefers that we ask about particular posts recieving PBCs by using the notification button? Or possibly things changed during my 11 week block for unwittingly posting an AP story that quoted someone saying something unkind about a nation which I stated disagreement with :)
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