Posted by Daisym on February 2, 2008, at 19:58:29
In reply to I feel ******** but am afraid to say so » Daisym, posted by zazenducke on February 2, 2008, at 19:47:14
If I understand the civility guidelines, our "intent" matters less than how we might make someone feel, based on our word choices. Which is kind of why I was asking about using the "one" vs. "you" - I also did not intend to be answering directly to you and your experience, but rather in more global way to many of the posters who have questioned a variety of relationship aspects that can occur during therapy. However, reading it again, I can see how I was not clear because I did, indeed, say "you."
I don't think you were pbc'd -- at least not on that thread, but maybe I missed it. I think I'll just choose to steer clear of these kinds of threads in the future.
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