Posted by Dr. Bob on January 22, 2007, at 19:37:24
In reply to Re: 'I' statements, posted by Fallen4MyT on January 22, 2007, at 17:54:12
> I cannot seem to see how mt post was not civil.
Thanks for wanting to understand this.
> > I feel HF WAS being pressured in the above *posts*
The issue with the above is that it could lead someone who was posting with HF to feel accused of pressuring her. More of an I-statement would be something like:
> > I would have felt pressured in the above *posts*
That's more about you and less about them. Also, we're asking posters who want to notify us about an issue to do so with that button instead of by posting.
Does this make more sense now?
Bob
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