Posted by gardenergirl on April 9, 2006, at 11:48:15
In reply to Re: i tried, posted by greywolf on April 9, 2006, at 0:47:29
> I don't call that well-adjusted on my part. I call it misery avoidance. :)
Still, misery avoidance seems like it contributes to feeling better than one might if one didn't actively avoid it. And moderation as one of your strategies sounds like a quite adaptive approach. Thanks for your post. I'm going to bookmark it so that I can remind myself when I find myself caught up in negative feelings about something.
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