Posted by special_k on March 31, 2006, at 0:18:56
In reply to Re: How come I never get warnings, only blocks?, posted by special_k on March 30, 2006, at 23:58:01
because what is it about...
that he might care about some people more than others.
and it is a funny one...
because it isn't fair if he cares about other people more than us.
and we get that it isn't fair if he cares about us more than other people.
and we don't want unfairness :-(
but at the same time everyone likes to feel special...
and really...
there are how many over on psychology going through the same thing with their therapists
who went through the same thing with their parents when they had a new sibling come along or where their parents seemed to favour a sibling over them.
or when they just don't really seem to give a toss about us. and yeah sure everybody needs love and some people don't seem to get enough of that... but sometimes people seem to be determined to look for it where they will never find it and i think maybe we do that on purpose really to set ourselves up so then we can just confirm our greatest fear that its because we are intrinsically unlovable anyway.
and people are sick sick sick imo
though of course im talking about me
and bowing out now...
poster:special_k
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