Posted by Dinah on June 26, 2004, at 20:49:10
In reply to Re: apparent inconsistencies, posted by Dr. Bob on June 26, 2004, at 15:55:50
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> However, if even given the above you don't feel safe, then maybe it would in fact be better for you not to stay. Which would be a loss for us...
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> BobDr. Bob, I'm only saying this to provide information to you so that you can be optimally effective. My therapist says almost the same thing, so it's not just you. It must be some therapist thing they teach you to say to emphasize personal responsibility or somesuch. But I thought I ought to let you know that when you say it to me (I can't speak for anyone else) it sort of sounds like "Don't let the door hit you on your way out" regardless of the extra sentence tacked on.
Just something for you to consider.
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